The 1 Male - Mr. Assertive and Handsome - Planetary Ruler: The Sun
Birth Number is 1 if you were born on the 1st, 10th, 19th, 28th of any month.

Got a first date with a 1 guy? Be fashionable, subtly flirtatious and let him see you're intelligent as well as have great taste. He may want to show you off a little too. He may dominate the conversation (he can be a bit opinionated), so assert yourself gently, firmly and frequently. There may also be a competitive side to him. Your 1 guy is talkative but super smart, and prides himself on his looks and status (he may be very proud of his Jag). Compliment him only once; chat about where he plans to go to college, what his favorite sport is, who his favorite celebrities/role models are and you'll get a quick sense of where he's going in life.
Colors to wear on a first date: Bright colors, especially sunny or pale yellows and orange.
Famous 1 celeb: Jay Leno

The 1 Female - Ms. Ambitious and Beautiful - Planetary Ruler: The Sun
Your Birth Number is 1 if you were born on the 1st, 10th, 19th, 28th of any month.

Dress to impress this beautiful gal. Look debonair instead of casual; don't suit up, but do give an impression of self-assurance and success. Commanding, slightly flamboyant personalities will attract the 1 girl. Don't forget to mention your good grades as well as the fact that you hope to own your own business someday. Status is something the 1 girl has an eye on; she works hard to carve out her place in the world, so you should make her look good. If you're the easy-going type, you may have to assert yourself a bit initially; the 1 girl gives off a strong energy. Compliment her mind and her achievements. Dinner at a slightly upscale restaurant may win you points on a first date.
Famous 1 celeb: Hillary Duff

The 2 Male - Mr. Emotional and Intuitive - Planetary Ruler: The Moon
Your Birth Number is 2 if you were born on the 2nd, 11th, 20th or 29th of any month.

Summery, floral dresses may make a better impression than jeans and a t-shirt on a date with a 2 guy. He may want to know more about your mom, family and how closely you connect to them; remember to chat about his family too. Speak softly; he won't interrupt you, but invite him to join in and participate equally in the conversation. This guy is sensitive and a natural gentleman; he may be proud of his home, family lineage or his collections. The 2 male is attracted to assertive, talkative women but finds his comfort zone with a gentle and understanding girl who can read his changing moods without eclipsing his masculinity. Emotionally, he attaches easily, so give your relationship enough time to blossom slowly but surely. Dinner by the ocean or a walk by the river or lake may be a good choice on a first date. Being near water relaxes him.
Colors to wear on a first date: Anything that matches the color of the moon, like creamy white with delicate silver jewelry.
Famous 2 celeb: Keanu Reeves

The 2 Female - Ms. Sensitive and Sympathetic - Planetary Ruler: The Moon
Your Birth Number is 2 if you were born on the 2nd, 11th, 20th or 29th of any month.

She's gentle and sweet; she's smart and intelligent. Hold her hand but not too aggressively, and remember to never come on too strong. Be courteous and lower the tone of your voice when speaking to her initially; this will bring her guard down over time. Ask about her family and parents, as well as her hometown. Most 2 girls will have many interesting family stories to share. Look like and be a thorough gentleman with loads of old-world charm and respectfulness; a collared shirt might create an excellent impression on a first date. She's a lady in every sense of the word, but may search your demeanor for signs of success and confidence. She may be very close to her family. Art shows, museums or a stroll by the sea or any body of water will win points with an elegant lunar girl.
Famous 2 celeb: Jennifer Aniston

The 3 Male - Mr. Enthusiastic and Charming - Planetary Ruler: Jupiter
Your Birth Number is 3 if you were born on the 3rd, 12th, 21st or 30th of any month.

He's super charming and he'll be chatting a lot! He will be very curious about your personal life, who else you're dating, who you've dated in the past. The 3 guy expects quick and frank answers to his questions. Be friendly, laugh a lot at his jokes, but don't divulge too much too soon; the 3 male loses interest if you're too open initially. He may be a sports nut, and may be very good at least a few sports; have your own sporting interests so you can introduce him to them. If you're a golf, football or baseball fan, you'll graduate quickly from date to sweetheart. He likes tomboys, but occasionally let your hair down and your inner Venus step out to dazzle his socks off with a totally feminine outfit.
Colors to wear on a first date: Any shade of blue or turquoise.
Famous 3 celeb: Robin Williams

The 3 Female - Ms. Talented and Vivacious - Planetary Ruler: Jupiter
Your Birth Number is 3 if you were born on the 3rd, 12th, 21st or 30th of any month.

She'll wow you with her bright smile and her happy, gregarious nature; she won't be shy about asking very pointed personal questions, so don't feel too pressured to answer them. Make her laugh; pack some witty one-liners into your verbal repertoire. Sporting events may help you bond with her; her inner tomboy helps her makes tons of guy buddies. Idealistic and driven, she may be one of the most energetic girls you know. She's secretly romantic; don't skip Valentine's Day or her birthday or you fall quickly from her list of suitors. Pick a comedy for a first date movie or attend a sporting event or car show. The local zoo or aquarium (she may love animals) may also be a great idea; exotic foreign cuisine may be her favorite.
Famous 3 celeb: Gwen Stefani

The 4 Male - Mr. Unconventional and Magnetic - Planetary Ruler: Uranus
Your Birth Number is 4 if you were born on the 4th, 13th, 22nd or 31st of any month.

Don't dress to kill; casual and simple attire may tell him you're unpretentious, comfortable with yourself and not desperate to impress. The 4 guy may seem a bit aloof but has a wild side too. Talk about your favorite humanitarian causes or anything that might set you apart from the average female. There may be a lot of lulls in the conversation initially, but flow with it naturally; he may be intuitively picking up a lot about you in quiet moments. The 4 guy opens up after date nine or ten, and will want to date a girl who doesn't call him too much. Be sure to not be too personal about his past. Your 4 male expects you to be well read and up to date on current events at school or in your city. Give off a relaxed air, smile a lot and be natural. Be prepared for a bit of rebelliousness. The 4 guy is extremely magnetic and attractive to females.
Colors to wear on a first date: Electric blues and purples, as well as lavender.
Famous 4 celeb: Justin Timberlake

The 4 Female - Ms. Unusual and Original - Planetary Ruler: Uranus
Your Birth Number is 4 if you were born on the 4th, 13th, 22nd or 31st of any month.

Strike a balance between being well dressed and being casual; make sure you smell great. Invite her to chat about her favorite role models or humanitarian causes; you'll notice she'll let you open up at your own pace. She may have a slightly different personality than the other girls you've dated, or she'll have an unusual take on life. She may give off a stronger friend or confidant vibe than a romantic one initially; this usually means you're on the right track with her. With a 4 girl, friendship comes first. Let her know you're a deep thinker and unmoved by worldly superficialities; simplicity and humility attract her. Discuss your favorite book, CD or charity and she'll see you're not run-of-the-mill. Be passionate about something bigger than yourself, and you'll have her full attention.
Famous 4 celeb: Angelina Jolie

The 5 Male - Mr. Freethinking and Adventurous - Planetary Ruler: Mercury
Your Birth Number is 5 if you were born on the 5th, 14th, 23rd of any month.

Dress comfortably (jeans are good) and express yourself freely and frequently. The 5 male looks attractive in casual wear as well as a tux for a formal night out. The slightly restless but intellectual 5 guy is knowledgeable about many different topics and may be an expert in a variety of fields, so the conversation will flow smoothly; he loves to talk! Outdoor dates, picnic lunches and then a night time stroll under the stars may help the energetic 5 guy relax, unwind and feel comfortable. He may prefer talkative, enthusiastic girls who are flirtatious and can assert themselves in a friendly way. The 5 male notices everything about you due to Mercury's laser sharp observational skills. End your first date with a visit to your local comedy club or catch a comedy flick; laughter and merriment always win points with him.
Colors to wear on a first date: Any bright, eye-catching color in the gold or yellow color family.
Famous 5 celeb: Donald Trump

The 5 Female - Ms. Sophisticated and Open-Minded - Planetary Ruler: Mercury
Your Birth Number is 5 if you were born on the 5th, 14th, 23rd of any month.

You don't have to get suited and booted but do present a clean cut and confident appearance. The 5 girl is delightfully friendly, easy to talk to and genuinely interested in what you have to say. She may know a few foreign languages and be better informed than you, so feel free so ask her opinion on a variety of subjects. She's humble and can connect with you even if you may not come from the same social background as her; her emotional flexibility is her most lovable trait. She laughs easily and enjoys a date where the conversation flows non-stop and touches on many unconnected topics in a fluid way. Check out a comedy movie after dinner, or take a quick hike up a nearby by mountain to walk off your food. Don't forget your hiking shoes; she is super active and probably keeps a spare pair in her car.
Famous 5 celeb: Miley Cyrus

The 6 Male - Mr. Romantic and Soulful - Planetary Ruler: Venus
Your Birth Number is 6 if you were born on the 6th, 15th, 24th of any month.

Look drop dead gorgeous; Venus' son is image-conscious and also slightly flirtatious. But back up the style with intellect; he may love books and be well informed on national or current events. Chat about your favorite music, movies or clubs. Music or theater may be especially close to his heart; a music concert might be a great first date idea. He'll be complimenting you a lot, and will usually connect more quickly with a woman who is comfortable with her femininity and ladylike. 6 guys are polite, make sure you say thank you when he pulls out your chair and holds the door open for you. Let the inner Venus in you peek out when you're with him; dresses and delicate, feminine jewelry may pique his interest more than boyish, casual clothing.
Colors to wear on a first date: Any shade of pink, such as rose pink.
Famous 6 celeb: George Clooney

The 6 Female - Ms. Seductive and Sensitive - Planetary Ruler: Venus
Your Birth Number is 6 if you were born on the 6th, 15th, 24th of any month.

Look sharp and handsome. You know that stylish blazer and swanky shoes you never get a chance to wear out? Might want to whip those out for a night on the town with your Venusian princess. The 6 female notices everything; good grooming counts. A handful of fresh flowers you've picked yourself or a single rose might not be a bad idea, even though it's a first date. The 6 girl loves little romantic formalities and gifts. Holding the door open for her, pulling out her chair, letting her walk into the restaurant first, all these niceties are necessary. Chat about art, music (which will be a favorite topic), dance or theater/movies. Your classy 6 girl may be a natural designer, so you might want to pop in to check out your local art gallery or museum. Never forget her Birthday or Valentine's Day! She's really sensitive about those dates.
Famous 6 celeb: Jennifer Lopez

The 7 Male - Mr. Intuitive and Intriguing - Planetary Ruler: Neptune
Your Birth Number is 7 if you were born on the 7th, 16th, 25th of any month.

Toss the tomboy look and dress to express your feminine side; free-flowing outfits or dresses and skirts might make the best impression. The 7 guy is super-romantic and may be soft-spoken initially, but he'll try hard to plan an evening to remember for you. One or two sincere and well-timed compliments might help him relax and feel more confident. Don't dominate the conversation; he's observant and will expect you to sense his feelings more than talk to him. The 7 male admires a girl who is financially smart. Art, music, movies or books are great icebreakers. Pick a movie about an exotic foreign nation or check out Cirque du Soleil if they're in town; this will make your first date extremely special. The 7 guy is very emotional and loves to fall in love.
Colors to wear on a first date: Ocean green, dark green or sage green.
Famous 7 celeb: Will Smith

The 7 Female - Ms. Emotional and Graceful - Planetary Ruler: Neptune
Your Birth Number is 7 if you were born on the 7th, 16th, 25th of any month.

The 7 girl is attractive, physically strong and may be a straight A student. She may enjoy dating a guy who is super-confident and sure of himself. A smart jacket and dockers instead of a t-shirt and jeans might intrigue her. Know your way around politics, saving money and planning for your future; she admires males who can talk about mature topics. Old-world charm might do the trick with the lovely 7 female who will enjoy being seen with a successful guy. Exotic foreign cuisine may be just right for a first date followed by a visit to your local movie theater; get the best seats for the 7 female. This exquisite and charming girl is worth all the effort, so don't text message your buds while you're out with her on a date.
Famous 7 celeb: Madonna

The 8 Male - Mr. Successful and Sensible - Planetary Ruler: Saturn
Your Birth Number is 8 if you were born on the 8th, 17th or 26th of any month.

Leave the revealing outfits and plunging necklines behind; this guy looks for a quality girl, one who is secure and who doesn't try too hard to impress him. Chat about your excellent grades as well as how you'd like to start and manage your own online magazine someday. Talk about how you get along with your family members (the ones you like). The 8 guy warms up slowly; he's inwardly romantic but judges a girl by how patient and sensible she is. A great first date idea is dinner at a nice restaurant and a drive at night to check out your city's glittering skyline. Slow and steady is his motto; develop a good friendship gradually and the 8 guy will pay special attention to you. He's serious about his career and wants to make something of himself. Be someone he can talk to, but know that silence is also comforting to him; excessive chatter may seem disorienting to this private guy.
Colors to wear on a first date: Darker hues such as dark brown, black or dark red. Grey is good too.
Famous 8 celeb: Matt Damon

The 8 Female - Ms. Devoted and Dependable - Planetary Ruler: Saturn
Your Birth Number is 8 if you were born on the 8th, 17th or 26th of any month.

The 8 girl seeks a guy who gives off an air of dignity and accomplishment, as well as someone she can take home to her dad and say "See, Dad, I told you he was a cut above the rest." She knows that a guy who works hard at his grades, will also work hard at a relationship. Talk about your educational achievements and career dreams; chat about how your family is close to your heart. The 8 girl is looking for a thorough gentleman who also has a good sense of humor. She's probably hoping to cruise up the career ladder someday, so be supportive of her dreams. Dine with her at an exquisite restaurant and make sure you pick her up and drop her off on time; punctuality wins points with the 8 girl. Make her laugh and maintain a sense of decorum in public; she may feel more comfortable around a guy who can formally court her instead of date her.
Famous 8 celeb: Jennifer Garner

The 9 Male - Mr. Passionate and Demonstrative - Planetary Ruler: Mars
Your Birth Number is 9 if you were born on the 9th, 18th, 27th of any month.

The 9 guy is adventurous, impulsive and bold enough to walk right up to you and ask for your name and number. Offer admiration too quickly and he'll tend to lose track of you. Be friendly but also controlled about how you react to his overwhelming presence. He may seem a bit pushy initially, so know when to stand your ground; he admires strength in a girl. Sports may be an initial area of commonality; check out a baseball game or enjoy roller-blading through your local park with your pet dogs in tow. Action flicks may be his favorite, so if you're doing the buying (let him pay for dinner), pick an adventure or martial arts movie, preferably with lots of slapstick humor thrown in, as this may help him open up to you more quickly. The 9 guy has a very strong and commanding personality. He's competitive and will tell you exactly what he thinks about anyone or anything.
Colors to wear on a first date: Any shade of red, such as bright red will do the trick.
Famous 9 celeb: Vin Diesel

The 9 Female - Ms. Intense and Elegant - Planetary Ruler: Mars
Your Birth Number is 9 if you were born on the 9th, 18th, 27th of any month.

The 9 girl is intense and once she knows you like her, she may pursue you in return. Retain an aura of mystery about you; talk about your past but in a healthy I've-moved-on way. She's assertive if interested and direct if she knows you'll reciprocate. Be casual but also self-controlled; don't go overboard in trying to please her. She needs to respect you and will treat you as an equal. If you share a sport in common, acknowledge her prowess, but do not compete with her. The 9 gal is very creative and has strong opinions on everything; invite her to chat about her thoughts but also share in the conversation. An active, outdoor date is a good choice. A comedy movie may help break the ice with the 9 girl. Make her laugh and she'll make you laugh harder. The 9 girl is charismatic and bold; if you can match her energy level, you'll click long term.
Famous 9 celeb: Avril Lavigne

Arizona based astrologer and numerologist Vera Kaikobad brings more than 12 years of experience in relationship compatibility. She is the author of Numerology For Relationships: A Guide To Birth Numbers, The 12 Moon Signs In Love: A Lover's Guide To Understanding Your Partner and The Young Girl's Astrological Dating Guide. All available at amazon.com or astrologycompatibilityreports.com

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